Who We Help: autism, ADHD, SEN and sensory differences.
One nervous system first method, whatever brought you here.
A diagnosis. A hunch. A waiting list. Or just a feeling that something isn't adding up. The starting point is always the same. Your child is not broken. Their nervous system needs support.
On a free 15 minute call, we'll tell you honestly what we think is going on, and which of these fits your child best.
No obligation. No diagnosis needed. Just fifteen minutes with Adi and Dana.
A message from Adi & Dana, parents and Melillo Method practitioners
- We support children from 18 months to 18 years with autism, ADHD, SEN, sensory processing differences and motor delay. We look at the nervous system underneath what you're seeing.
- We don't diagnose, and we don't claim to cure anything. We work alongside your child's school, therapists and doctors.
- You don't need a diagnosis. Many of the families we work with are still on a waiting list.
- Not sure where your child fits? Pick the closest page below, or book a free 15 minute call and we'll point you in the right direction.
Seven areas, one method underneath.
Most families who come to us fit somewhere on this list, sometimes in more than one place. Pick whichever sounds closest to what you're seeing. Or take the free call if you're not sure.
Autism Support
Meltdowns, sensory overwhelm, difficulty with eye contact and transitions. Support that starts with the nervous system, not the behaviour.
Learn more →ADHD Support
Difficulty focusing, impulsivity, homework battles and constant reminders. Why sticker charts only get you so far.
Learn more →Sensory Processing Support
Texture aversions, noise sensitivity, mealtime battles and seeking behaviour. Support beyond the sensory diet.
Learn more →SEN Support
Dyslexia, dyspraxia and general learning difficulties. Support that starts with the nervous system, not the classroom.
Learn more →Primitive Reflexes Explained
A layer underneath meltdowns, focus, posture and sleep that we think often gets overlooked. Free guide and course.
Learn more →Baby and Toddler Motor Delay
Late to sit, crawl or walk? Where to start, and who to see first. Our page begins with NHS guidance on when to get checked.
Learn more →Neurofeedback for Children
What it is, what the research says, and whether it might be worth a look for your child. An honest guide.
Learn more →Not sure where your child fits?
That's completely normal. Tell us what you're seeing and we'll point you to the right place.
Book a free call →Does any of this sound like your house?
Most families who find us have already been trying for a long time. What you're seeing every day has a reason. It's got nothing to do with behaviour or parenting.
You know your child. We know where to look.
Every family that reaches out to us has already been through a lot. Here's what makes working with us different.
Personalised programmes
No two children get the same plan. Every programme is built around your child, their history and what your family is dealing with right now.
Parent led support and coaching
You're in the room for every decision. We coach you through the home exercises so progress keeps going long after the session ends.
Whole child approach
We don't just target one behaviour. We look at sleep, movement, emotions, focus and communication together, because in real life they're never separate.
In person Intensive Training
Hands on, in clinic sessions in Mill Hill, London, for families who want to work with us face to face.
Remote programmes worldwide
Support from home, wherever you are. Families in the US, Australia, Israel and across Europe follow the same structure we use in clinic, over video.
No diagnosis needed, and it's not instead of OT or speech therapy. We work alongside the professionals already supporting your child, looking at why the difficulties exist at the nervous system level.
Parents first, practitioners second.
Our older son didn't speak until he was five, and that's where this started. Today he's fully verbal, has finished his GCSEs, has friends and is independent. We've spent over 20 years in developmental therapies since, and we've both been Melillo Method certified since 2022.
We know the waiting lists and the six month gaps between appointments. Read our full story →
One method, whatever brought you here.
Autism, ADHD, SEN, sensory processing differences and retained reflexes all show up differently on the surface. In the model we work with, the same nervous system layers are often involved, so we follow the same sequence every time.
Regulation
Help the nervous system feel safe, so your child isn't stuck in fight, flight or shutdown.
Movement
Build balance, coordination and body awareness, the physical foundation the brain relies on.
Reflexes
Gently help early automatic reflexes finish switching off, so they stop getting in the way.
Learning & Communication
Focus, language and independence get a steadier base to build on.
Want the science behind each stage? Here's how it maps to the nervous system.
Safety first. The nervous system has to come out of survival mode.
A child stuck in fight, flight or shutdown finds it much harder to learn and connect. We think it's a step that often gets missed.
Switch off the reflexes that never finished developing.
In the model we work with, primitive reflexes that haven't switched off can contribute to sensory sensitivity, focus and difficulty with transitions. Read our guide to primitive reflexes →
Strengthen the bridge between body and brain.
We work on balance and coordination because we think they connect to movement, timing, attention and sensory processing.
Now focus, communication and flexibility have somewhere to grow from.
The aim is to give focus, communication and flexibility a steadier base to grow from.
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Families supported across London and internationally
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Individual programmes, built around your child
In their own words.
"After an intensive week with Dana and Adi, we saw improvement in our son's behaviour. He is calmer now, his focus has improved and his sleep has improved."
"Dana and Adi are a great team, incredibly knowledgeable and supportive. They always found a way to help our son and gave us the strength to do the same at home."
"Very caring and truly have your best interests at heart. Check ins from Dana help keep you focused on working at home. Highly recommend."
What happens on the free call?
You tell us what's going on
No forms to fill in first. Just tell us what you're seeing at home and at school.
We share what we think it is
Honestly, and in plain language, including which area above fits your child best, and whether we think we can help.
You decide, no pressure
If it's a fit, we'll talk next steps. If not, we'll tell you that too.
Things parents ask us about who we help.
Want to understand what is going on?
The Melillo Method in the UK →
What it is, and what the research says.
Free primitive reflexes course →
A layer underneath meltdowns, focus and sleep. 100% free.
Clarity Day →
One day in clinic in Mill Hill to get clear answers and a plan.
The Remote Programme →
Support from home, wherever you are.
The podcast →
Conversations with Adi, Dana and expert guests.
The science behind it all →
The neuroscience in plain English.
This page is general information for parents. It is not medical advice, and it does not replace advice from your GP, health visitor, paediatrician or other health professional.
Book a free 15 minute call with Adi & Dana.
No waiting list, no diagnosis needed, and no pressure to commit to anything. Just a straight conversation with two people who've been where you are.
