Sensory processing support for children in London and online
It starts with the nervous system, not just the sensory diet.
You’ve tried the weighted blankets and chewy tools. We look at the nervous system underneath the sensitivity, alongside what’s already in place.
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A message from Adi and Dana, parents and Melillo Method practitioners
The short version
- We support children with sensory processing differences, like tags that feel unbearable, noise that overwhelms or foods they can’t tolerate, by looking at the nervous system underneath, through balance, movement and primitive reflex work.
- It sits alongside occupational therapy, sensory diets and any other help your child has. It isn’t a replacement for any of them.
- Research on our approach for sensory processing is limited, so we can’t promise particular results. You don’t need a diagnosis to start.
Does any of this sound like your house?
Most families who come to us for sensory processing support have already been trying for a long time. What you’re seeing has a reason, and it isn’t about parenting or a lack of effort on your child’s part.
Why the usual approaches haven’t fully worked.
Most sensory support helps manage the reaction, and that matters. We’d never suggest you stop it. We also look underneath, because we think sensory reactions can reflect how the nervous system registers and filters input. This is the order we work in.
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Brainstem
Safety first. Help the nervous system out of survival mode.
A child stuck in fight, flight or shutdown finds it much harder to filter sensory input calmly. We think it’s a step that often gets missed.
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Cranial nerves and reflex pathways
Help early reflexes finish switching off.
In the model we work with, primitive reflexes that haven’t switched off can add to touch sensitivity, sound sensitivity and difficulty with textures. Read our guide to primitive reflexes.
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Cerebellum
Build balance and coordination, the bridge between body and brain.
We work on balance and coordination because we think they support how the nervous system filters and organises sensory input.
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Cortex
Give tolerance, filtering and calm a steadier base.
With the foundations underneath stronger, tolerance, filtering and calm have somewhere to grow from.
We’ve been where you are. Now we know what to look for.
Our older son didn’t speak until he was five, and that’s where this started. Today he’s fully verbal, has finished his GCSEs, has friends and is independent. We’ve spent over 20 years in developmental therapies since, and we’ve both been Melillo Method certified since 2022.
We know the waiting lists, the tools and the strategies that don’t quite work. This is how we work with your family:
- Built around your child. No two children get the same plan.
- You’re in the room. We coach you through the home exercises, so progress keeps going after the sessions end.
- In clinic or online. A week in our Mill Hill clinic, or the same structure from home, wherever you live.
In their own words.
“After an intensive week with Dana and Adi, we saw improvement in our son’s behaviour. He is calmer now, his focus has improved and his sleep has improved.”
“Dana and Adi are a great team, incredibly knowledgeable and supportive. They always found a way to help our son and gave us the strength to do the same at home.”
“Very caring and truly have your best interests at heart. Check ins from Dana help keep you focused on working at home. Highly recommend.”
Things parents ask us about sensory processing.
Can nervous system work help with sensory processing?
Is there research showing this works for sensory processing?
Is sensory processing disorder a diagnosis?
Does my child need a diagnosis to work with you?
Is this instead of occupational therapy?
Should we check anything else first?
What are primitive reflexes and why might they matter for sensory processing?
What if my child is older?
We are not in London. Can we still get support?
How much does it cost?
How quickly will we see changes?
This page is general information for parents. It is not medical advice, and it does not replace advice from your GP, your child’s occupational therapist or another qualified professional.
Want to understand what’s going on?
Primitive reflexes explained
What they are, and what the research does and doesn’t show.
The Melillo Method in the UK
What it is, and how to find a practitioner.
Autism support
When sensory differences sit alongside autism.
Clarity Day
One day in clinic in Mill Hill, with clear answers and a plan.
The Remote Programme
Support from home, wherever you are.
The science behind it all
The neuroscience, in plain English.
Book a free 15 minute call with Adi & Dana.
In fifteen minutes, we’ll talk through why your child may still be struggling, which part of the nervous system may be involved, and whether we’re the right fit, or if something else would serve your child better.
